FOLLOWING MY DREAMS!
I seriously do not want to sound rude or anything, I really just am curious, so don't take this the wrong way, I just don't know how to express/explain myself, but don't you feel bad running a 1D blog and being 27 ? don't you ever feel bad or stupid or like your desperate ? I don't know if you know what I mean ? anyway, thank you xx
I appreciate that you did not want this to come off as rude and I do understand where the question comes from. I do. But I just don’t understand what other people get out of trying to make other people feel bad or pathetic or any other negative emotions about decisions I make that affect only my life when I am not hurting anyone else.
What does it do to pass judgment on me? What does it do to come to me and tell me I’m bad or wrong or pathetic or stupid for liking the things I like? Does it help anyone? Does it make anyone feel better about their own life decisions?
Why on earth would I ever feel bad about running a 1D blog? Why on earth should I? Bad, pathetic, stupid and DESPERATE?! Are you kidding me?
Give me one reason why I should feel any of those things. Why? Because at 27 I’m supposed to be ‘over it’? Why? Why am I supposed to be over it? Because other people tell me I should be over it? C’mon.
I don’t listen to the whole ‘you have to be normal, you have to fit in, you have to do as we say, you don’t want to be weird because weird is bad and pathetic and no one will like you’ rhetoric. That’s damaging. And it’s damaging for no reason - for no purpose.
I keep trying to impart to people - there is no ‘supposed to.’ There is no ‘should.’ There is no normal - there is only what is best for you.
People like what they like. They do what they do. And unless they’re hurting someone by doing it, or hurting themselves, then they should never, ever be judged for it.
Because what on earth could be the point of trying to make someone feel horrible for no reason?
I have never once felt bad about liking anything I like. And I never will. I don’t ever listen to the rude, inconsiderate, short-sighted, nonsensical judgments of other people over MY life.
And let me tell you: Life is not about monitoring yourself and adjusting yourself and trying to fit yourself into other people’s molds and other people’s standards.
You’re not going to get anything out of judging other people.
And you’re not going to get real far if you let other people’s judgments of you stop you from doing what you want to do.
I cant stand this passive aggressive bullshit that these anons send “i’m not trying to be rude” but yet the follow up is “aren’t you embarrassed by your behavior because you should be”. It’s their way of insulting you but pretending like theyre not trying to and I’m fucking sick of everyone feeling like they’re constantly running defense against shit like this.
And then when you get mad at the passive aggressive bullshit, they write back with “I wasn’t trying to be rude you condescending overdramatic bitch. Quit acting like a victim.”
Abby worded herself exactly right. A million points to Abby.